that is amazing. i am so proud for you, for not letting yourself be broken by that. that sounds like a horrific childhood, and here you are saying youre not a victim, youre a survivor. from what ive heard about sexual abuse, you either manage to convince yourself thats what you like, which would explain why you like BDSM, or you hate the thought of it completely. my friend had a girlfriend for a while, he really liked her, but she didnt even really like being hugged, because shed been abused.
i think being able to say that its over and youre alive is the most important thing. i know i started by saying this, but that testimony is amazing.
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