Personally I think you should advise your cousin very strongly to talk to her parents and if not them then at least some other trusted person who is in a position to help her. You said yourself that you can't really help her, but she has chosen you to confide in and I think that gives you a bit of responsibility. I'm not saying you have to support her on your own, but I think you need to make sure she gets help. Encourage her to tell someone, and let her know that this isn't a secret you can keep. It would be best for her if she could tell someone herself and maybe you could help her work towards that. If she can't then might be the time to step in and tell someone yourself.
You are not on your own in this and neither is she. You may have promised her to keep it a secret but there are some secrets that should not be kept. Try telling her that and tell her that it isn't because you don't care but it's because you want her to get the best help possible and you can't provide that.
It's tough but she does need help. Try talking to her and help her to tell others. You might find it helps you as well.
-hugs- Take care of yourself as well.
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