Originally Posted by
DoveInGrey
Sorry for the multiple posts, I''ve got my mouse hovering over the panic button and don't want to lose what I've written so I'm doing it in small bits.
Thinking about what is making me anxious some more... my fiance's sister is due to go into labour anytime now and on some level I'm worried that meeting his first niece of nephew might trigger him to feel broody... now, I'm childfree-by-choice and he has fertility issues but was on the fence about having kids before he met me, and says it's something he wouldn't leave me over... I don't want to deprive him of anything and have him grow to resent me though... it's kind of silly but I feel that meeting his sister's baby could mark a turning point I guess.
It's not silly. The way you explain it, it sounds logical.
You've been with your fiance for quite a while now. You ought to be able to trust him to be true to his word, and not leave you. You're a catch anyway. ;)