I think in a way living in the moment and taking things one day at a time can be a recipe for a long term thing. I met my partner at 16- we knew we were young, we never expected it to last, so we just took everything one day at a time and enjoyed each other. Now 5 and a half years later we're about to move in together, and are slowly talking about marriage and kids. I kinda don't think you need to think about the long term until it happens. Just enjoy the relationship, and what will be will be :)
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