Okay, I understand how you're feeling at the moment and that you are excited about the pregnancy, and perhaps (I don't know so please don't take this the wrong way) maybe defensive as you are in a controversial position. I'm not going to say you should/shouldn't keep the baby as ultimately this is your decision. But is there anyone you can talk to, professionally, to go through the choices to make sure that you are fully aware of what you're doing and to make sure you've got support? I'm not trying to be patronising here, I promise you, but many people (of whatever age) can struggle to truly understand what having and bringing up a child means and I think it's important that both you and the dad are clear on what it all means and what this situation involves.
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