You did the right thing. You are NOT a bad role model. You did NOT cause the friend's issues. The sister is hurt she didn't notice/do something first, and she's saying those things to you because she's hurt and feels helpless. The friend may be mad right now, but she knew what you would do. The first time you went to her mum, you did the right thing. I think she came to you again because she needed help and knew you'd find it for her by telling her mom. You're in a very hard situation, but I think you're doing everything you can and just right.
Let the friend be mad. She'll come around again, and I'm sure she knows what you did was right. I know it's hard, but you're being incredibly strong right now! *HUG* I admire you very much, and I wish I had friends I had confided in who had tattled on me. ;)
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