I know when "it" Happened to me before christmas when I initially told my boyfriend he was upset, angry, so many other things that he couldnt describe. It was like his prize rose had been torn and trampled all over tarnished forever. He also knew about the CSA, its a long distance relationship and he stayed with me. When I saw him over new year i broke up with him in my sleep and so on - which I still don't know what I said, but when I explained in the morning he understood. We had a mutal break up last week but Im not sure it was the right thing to do.
Im sure if you give him sometime to get around the whole situation he may be able to understand better, if he truely loves you it shouldn't matter. If he doesn't want to know you anymore then you shouldnt be upset as it really is his loss. If you want to chat just PM me.
Sorry if this doesnt help as my minds not in a great place.
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