*hugs* that's an absolutely horrid situation to be in. I don't know the entire story on his side of why he's breaking up, but I can totally see why it'd be a huge blow to tell someone something so painful and have them break up with you right afterwards! I'm sure it feels like telling him about the rape caused it, even if it didn't. All I can say is try and figure out what's best for you. Did you guys have problems before this happened? Or is this just out of the blue? If he broke up with you solely cause of the rape, he is not worth it AT ALL. but if there's other stuff going on then maybe time is necessary. I'm so sorry this happened. I can't imagine how painful this must be. Are you getting counseling for both the rape and the breakup, cause both must be extremely painful.
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