I think I understand what you're saying, I could be wrong though.
For me, I don't have a problem with my SI. If I need it I will do it. Basically, I don't plan on stopping hurting myself unless I stop feeling the way I feel. Is it kind of the same for you?
The thing is, it would be better not to NEED it. Not to feel the way you do at the moment. Therapy might be able to help with that. And there certainly isn't anything to lose by trying.
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