*hugs* me too...
actually, the need to hide it does help me not to SH, especially as it's summer here, so lots of time in swimming costumes, shorts etc it doesn't stop me being self-destructive in other ways, but it does reduce the SH
How's it going with the counsellor? have you seen a doctor about it? Some meds may help in the short term while you work through stuff
I also have lots of lovely friends and a great job, sometimes that's not enough... try not to beat yourself up about it, the SH is a symptom of underlying needs that aren't being met in more constructive ways
Tok xxx
PS how about knitting ;)
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