Mandi's right in that it will be easier to get closure over all this this way. I tried ignoring it for years, worked, I thought...till it all came back, even worse than I could have imagined.
I'd hate to see that happen to you.
It wasn't a simple 'mistake' luv, it was a criminal assault that he deserves to be punished for. But I can understand how you are feeling punished too.
Will the center really allow him back after this? I can't see how they could!!
So sorry it is all so awful and disrupting your life so much. I hope it will move quickly for you.
Have you considered any (abuse specific) couns? Tbh, I wish I had tried it.
Here if you need ok?
xxx
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