I don't like the idea of self-harm being classed as a stand-alone illness. And I certainly don't agree with it being considered solely a Childhood/Adolescence thing. True, most people do stop as they get older, but isn't that usually due to recovery from (or treatment of) the underlying illness of which the self-harm is a symptom? Implying that it's a phase you grow out of invalidates and trivialises it, in my opinion.
As for the idea that since it often comes with a variety of other mental illnesses it must be something else entirely, I don't agree with that either. Maybe it's just me, but my self-harm is very closely linked to my depression (non-existent self worth and belief that I deserve it) and eating disorder (hatred of my body and an intense desire to destroy it).
Then again, self-harm is very addictive, and there have been times when I've cut "because it's been a while since I last did it and it feels weird" so maybe that's a factor.
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