Is not so much, 'how can i stop self harming?'.
Do you WANT to stop self harming? Thats always the key. You won't stop self-harming if you dont want to.
The same thing with smoking. I smoke, and I would like to quit, but I dont want to.
Your boyfriend should be more supportive, have you tried to talk to him? Reason with him, tell him self-injury 'helps' you.
I told my boyfriend, and this maybe just ME, that self-harming stops me killing myself, its a safety net, and he has never tried to take it away, the whole five 1/2 years we've been together.
Although, he'd damn sure take my smoking away if he could.
Chin up girlie.
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