heya
i think its really good that you are going to raise awareness and maybe peoples opinions will change and we wont all be ceen to be emos!!
How old are you?16
Are you male or female?female
What is the reason you started self harming?i started self harm for a few reasons the reasons i started self harm was because i was been bullied very badly at school and at home i was been hit around by my parents and was the one who was looking after my siblings i guess i was so alone and withdrawn and frightened i couldnt let myself cry and i had no one to talk to i needed a way to deal with all my pain and that is why i began self harming.
Does self harm help you feel in control of your life?yes and no beacause in one way it does but in another way it does not it does because it helps me to deal with the pain and at first when you start self harming you are the one in control of it and your the one who can make yourself feel better but after a while it makes you in less control of your life because it begins to control you and therefore no longer really begins to work anymore as the self harm is controling you and you start doing it for no reasons as such just because you need to.
Does anyone know that you self harm?yes alot of people know.
If so, did you tell them willingly or did they find out?some i told willingly but others just kinda found out.
What is the reason you don’t/didn’t tell anyone?the reason i dont and didnt tell anyone is because people have this perception that if you self harm that your emo and thats not true and also from expierence of telling people i have found out alot of people dont necessarly understand and that makes you feel worser to tell so for me i come to the conclusion its better to keep it to yourself so that then you dont get hurt by peoples reactions and also its kinda a private thing.
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