Hiya welcome to ryl :)
I'l redirect you
This is the Serious Discussion Forum
http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...splay.php?f=30
Here is the Self Injury Discussion Forum
http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...splay.php?f=29
This is the Veterans Corner
http://www.recoveryourlife.com/forum...splay.php?f=77 which is where the older members aged 18 and over hang out. If you need anything please feel free to get in touch.
Take care best wishes Ian