*cuddles everyone*
It's icky weather here. Icy and rainy and blech. Just had a shithole of a session with my therapist, it lasted less than half the time it was supposed to - now I remember why I don't do phone sessions!! but I didn't want to "brave" the roads at 8:30am before the sun had a chance to melt the ice, etc.
I want to b/p and nothing's stopping me except myself... I want to give up but I can't: here is what one friend told me last night:
Life doesn't work the way we want it to and giving up isn't an option. I don't like to think or seem like I've had a bad hand or anything but I grew up largely without my parents, I was abused when I was small, and raped when I was 18. I've wanted to give up countless times but it doesn't work that way. You have to believe that things will not always be this way. Lots of people get depressed and have psych issues and many of them make it everyday with problems just like yours, the difference between them and you is that they have realized that they are responsible for themselves and their own happiness and don't believe in just letting things happen to them or giving in to things that are not healthy for them. You need to step up and show Jarrod he's not going to be in a life with someone who doesn't want to be in it. It sounds like a med tweak may be in order as well. I care about you a lot and this probably sounds harsh but I've never believed in sugar coating things.
So yeah. What do you all think of that? (Jarrod's my husband) It ****ing hurt, that's what I thought... especially as this is coming from someone who is not actively fighting her ED (or so it sounds from her journal entries).
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