Originally Posted by
feel_the_release
Hi there,
Are you sure that it is "love" that you feel for both girls? Love is very commonly mistaken for infatuation, lust and a crush. Take a very good look at your situation for both girls... do you really "LOVE" these girls or have you formed a very strong attration? Love is something that is built through time and trust and supporting eachother.
That pretty much sums up what I was going to say. I think you should look carefully at the relationship you have with both girls to try and see what the amount of trust, support and understanding you have built with each of them is, as some of what you're feeling could be infatuation.
Do you have a strong realtionship with both girls? And have you known them both a long time or not?
Getting overly attached to people can also stem from feelings of rejection, so once you manage to find somebody you feel close to, you don't want to let them go so you end up overly attached.
You mentioned about getting hurt very easily, did you experience this before you had troubles with getting overly attached?
Take care
xx