When I was with my ex bf, I wasnt SIing at the time, but I was concerned I might be pulled into it again or worse than I was before [i only used to scratch or dig my nails in, never fully cut] - i confided that in him and he said he'd dump me and threatened to rub oven cleaner in the wounds if I dared to do it. :(
It made me freak out something rotton when I did do mild SI.
Recently I was somewhat involved with my ex gf, and she really worried about me but didnt flip out... her own creepy bloodlust got in the way of that a bit too though... which was crap when what i needed was support.
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