Hun, I had exactly the same problem with my last boyfriend. It can be hard for other people to understand our anxieties, as they ARE irrational and our partners can see that and get annoyed with it, whereas we know we just have to put up with it. Do you know if there are any other things behind this? Physical touch makes up a big part of relationships, and that can make it hard when we go through phases where touch is harder to handle. How do you feel if you are say sitting on the sofa watching a movie or something with you cuddling up next to him and his arm round you? Would that be ok? I'm sorry things are like this right now, I know exactly how you feel though.
Hugs
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