I think a lot of what draws us to other people with problems is not having to worry about being understood or judged. But when your recovering its a good life line and it's dead hard to turn your back on it.
Its really hard to deny yourself the understanding of someone you think gets you.
When you've got yourself right you'll meet someone who is right for you, and they might be 100% normal and still have empathy and understand you. Don't feel guilty for anyone else.
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