Have you tried to explain to him that you really aren't interested? If he just thinks you're embarrassed about what you did whilst drunk, I bet he's just going to continue to tell you not to worry about it and try to persuade you to go out with him. If you truly are not interested in this guy, tell him nicely that you just aren't looking to be in a relationship right now. Hopefully he'll get the hint and leave you alone. Don't shut him out just because you are embarrassed though.
If all else fails, do one of three things I always d: 1) Tell him you're sorry, but you have a boyfriend and made a terrible mistake by kissing him that night. You didn't know what you were doing. 2) Get a friend to call him and tell him you never want to speak to him again. 3) Just don't answer his texts or calls.
I'm ashamed to say I've done all three of these things many times. They aren't nice, but if it's the only way to get them off your back...
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