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Old 25-12-2009, 07:46 PM   #2
koukai
 
Join Date: Aug 2007

I dont know about the meds affecting your ability to conceive, but I do know that having a baby will not make you want to stop cutting and start eating. In fact, it will probably make those urges worse because of all the stress and physical discomfort that comes along with carrying a baby.

If neither of you are out of college yet, then I (personally) dont think you should have a child. In today's world you cant get anywhere without a college degree and your boyfriend dropping out now could REALLY come back to haunt you later when you need that money for supporting the child.

You don't want to be pregnant your last year of college. How would you complete your exams and all that when you're constantly going to Dr's apptments?

Also, you guys are so SO so young. You really ought to wait. Think of the kid - can you HONESTLY give it the best life possible right now? Or do you think it could have a better life a few years down the road when you're more settled?

A kid is not the answer to your problems - it's the doorway to many more.

Think about it carefully. Talk to your parents or an adult that you trust who's had kids already. I guarantee you that they will agree with what I've said.

Regardless of what you decide, I honestly wish you all the very best.

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