i've been dealing with this for a long time now, and if i don't feel like answering, i either just say "it's personal", "it's a long story", or "oh, that's from a long time ago, don't worry about it".
if you are comfortable with it, depending on your coworkers, it's usually ok to come out and say it. i usually try to keep it pretty simple as in "i used to self-injure" or "well, i used to be really depressed, but i'm better now".
i've found that the more comfortable with it you can seem, the less of a big deal it will be for other people around you, and i have actually found that most people are surprisingly mature about it. the ones who aren't probably aren't the people you want around anyway.
alternately, funny excuses can also work to deflect/ get the message across that you don't want to talk about it, if that is the case. my favorite of those is "oh, my cat has pretty bad ocd. we're working on getting him medicated for that...".
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