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Old 07-08-2007, 08:06 PM   #1
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: London area
meeting with prospective new befriender *this afternoon [Wednesday]...

... and I'm scared/nervous.

This is through my local branch of Mind. Befriending info.

I had a befriender, for 9 months. Then she just disappeared with no notice and no warning. That upset me somewhat.

So now I will be getting a new befriender. And the meeting is tomorrow.

I want someone who will be reliable. And empathic. And honest. And not someone who is overweight and on diets and conscious of her weight, not when I am a recovering borderline-anorexic who needs to eat. It did make shopping and eating out together awkward. And there were a number of times when she didn't turn up, and said she'd texted me and she hadn't...

I need some tips please on how to be assertive and ask what I need, things like that.. Thanks..


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