[quote=Alone and Scared;2001089]
Sometimes I can be of use, other times I can't - and people don't always understand that.
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That just summed it up. Sometimes people forget that were all on here for similar reasons , and have the general attitude of
"I am hurting. You must help me regardless of your situation NOW"
Im not aiming this , and not trying to rub people the wrong way, but I have had that attitude before.
Eg. I was in completely general chat and next thing I know, someone had brought up a new conversation box with all this triggering content. I wasnt in a safe place to hear it, but after they said all that I felt too involved to just turn around and say, "yeah Ive got my own stuff going on"
I know I should have reported it, but I was in a bit of a state.
I think that if you are in that situation, you should at least check on how the other person is, if their ok to offer support etc etc, because the pressure to help when your not in the right state of mind can be really overwhelming.
Sorry im kinda rambling now lol
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