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airwolf282 · 30-11-2009, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by FlightlessBird

It's sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy. You expect people to abandon you, you push at them, and then they do leave...which just gives you more evidence to keep pushing people away and keeping them at arm's length.

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Flightless Bird said it perfectly. It seems that you probably do it out of impulse........I don't think you would be doing it deliberately. That's why I suggested therapy. If you can see a psychologist/counsellor and work on changing your thinking, you will eventually be able to stop doing it. Please forgive me if I'm wrong here.

30-11-2009, 06:20 AM	#5
airwolf282 Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Australia I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by FlightlessBird It's sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy. You expect people to abandon you, you push at them, and then they do leave...which just gives you more evidence to keep pushing people away and keeping them at arm's length. ^ ^ Flightless Bird said it perfectly. It seems that you probably do it out of impulse........I don't think you would be doing it deliberately. That's why I suggested therapy. If you can see a psychologist/counsellor and work on changing your thinking, you will eventually be able to stop doing it. Please forgive me if I'm wrong here. Last edited by airwolf282 : 30-11-2009 at 06:25 AM.
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