That sounds really dictatorial behaviour. It's.. possible that this teacher has a hard time dealing with the darker side of life, and exacts this kind of control to 'protect' herself from facing it. For whatever reason. She clearly has personal issues that she needs to address herself.
As to what you do. Is there a pastoral head of year or someone you trust that you can speak with about this? It is not the right kind of way to treat someone who's feeling vulnerable - if she has concerns about you, she should approach this openly with you in confidence.
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