Originally Posted by
Sunshine
I would, but i already called up my cpn today in tears and she just told me to grow up and act like an adult, so they dont really care!
I read this and my instinct was a sharp intake of breath. That is completely uncalled for. Yet, unfortunately, I have been on the receiving end of similar comments (not put quite so bluntly). You don't need to grow up. Maybe some of your coping methods (like mine) are not emotionally mature but that does not mean you need to grow up, it means you need help to deal with and react to things in a more constructive and useful way.
*hugs*