How do you feel about the guy sitting in on your sessions?
It could be really helpful to have a more experienced professional as a part of your treatment team.
How is communication with her?
Are there ways - talking to her, writing to her - that you can help her out with some reality checking? Help her to understand that the bad stuff isn't happening anymore, that she doesn't need to be small to stop getting hurt because no one is going to hurt her?
A lot of parts need this kind of reassurance - they are stuck in the time the abuse happened, or just can't comprehend that it has ended, because it was all they knew.
We hope you are ok.
lostboys
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