I'm still feeling peeved about it. But am tired, so brain not really functioning fully enough to ponder and reflect.
Talking to them? I don't think it would achieve anything. Usually they do tell me stuff, but then they also assume I'll know other stuff.
The socialising is one aspect. As in my not feeling able to. Plus it's their friends and of course they wouldn't invite me.
But also our kitchen/dining room is pretty small. It's the practical side of it. As well as the polite side of it. If you're having a 'dinner party' the last thing I think you'd really want is your lodger turning up to cook in the same room part way through! And the said lodger having to plough her way through their dirty cooking dishes to use the oven and get to the sink. And so on and so forth.
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