yes, i have been in that situation. it is very hard at first, but they probably need to know to understand you better. are you afraid of their reaction? perhaps if you are afraid of verbalising it, write it out so if speaking is an issue you can just hand them what you have written.
and i survived, at first it was mortifying but you can tell them that you aren't really comfortable talking about it in great detail, that's what i did. i told them 3yrs+ after it happened when i was younger & i still havent told them everything. i usually tell my therapist.
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