I'm sure you know this has the potential to blow up in your face, so to speak, if you act on any of this.
I can understand liking the idea that he still has feelings for you, but is it worth destroying your marriage?
It would seem (i could be waaayyy off, sorry if i am) that 'something' is missing or lacking in your current relationship so you are looking outside to find what you want/need.
Is it possible to try and figure out what it is you are looking for? Perhaps a good talk with your hubby, not mentioning this new person, but explaining what you feel is lacking/or would like, might be a really good idea?
Sometimes a marriage can become 'stuck in a rut' and the excitement/attraction you once felt seems to disappear in bills, chores, jobs, etc.
Sometimes a simple thing like 'date nights' or candlelight dinners can bring you closer together and remind you how much you love each other all over again.
Do you have anyone you can talk to about it? Someone who is totally neutral to the situation? Might be a good idea; could help you figure out what you would like to change in the relationship.
I can just see it ending in total disaster if you go ahead with meeting up with this old friend....the potential to destroy your marriage, your hubby's trust, etc.
Would it be worth it to lose what you have?
Sorry if any of that sounded harsh, wasnt meant that way...but it is likely the reality if you go ahead with meeting up with him.
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