She replied. Even though I told her not to. But im kind of glad she did.
I'm glad you've told me. Getting it out in the open will help. Don't believe any of the stuff he said during the act, as you said it was just "standard rape banter", and he's just trying to make you feel shit, so he feels better. don't let him ruin your life. I really, really think you should report him, don't worry about no one believing you or anything, you need to let the police know. I think you should tell your bf too.
Not pretty?! Don't be stupid. Don't believe anything he said. Why should you hate yourself for what he did?! You're right, none of it was your fault.
I really don't know what to say babez, I;m rubbish with advice at the best of times. x
So yeah. I dunno what I was expecting anyway. But I think its really hard for someone to understand that it's not always something you want to report
