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Cryptic. · 13-09-2009, 02:34 PM

Sometimes discussing it is not able to be done, which is unfortunet, but that's how it is sometimes... I do agree though with the pen&paper etc, and I do agree with everything else you've said.

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Originally Posted by Heidi Tiger

Good post Abigail!

I've had it happen to me before and I felt absolutely awful about it, anxious and shaky and sick. It then sets off a lot of paranoia that anything certain people say in a rant thread is directed at you, even when most probably it isn't.

Particularly when people say "yeah I can see you reading this thread" or similar, which unfortunately is something I've read far too often on here and just generally makes everyone feel paranoid. If you must rant about certain members doing it on pen and paper then ripping it up once it's out your system is probably kinder for all involved. As is discussing problems you have with a particular member, with discussion and negotiation, you never know you might become friends again, or understand each other that little bit more.

13-09-2009, 02:34 PM	#13
Cryptic. If at first you don't succeed, try try try again. Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK, Surrey I am currently:	Sometimes discussing it is not able to be done, which is unfortunet, but that's how it is sometimes... I do agree though with the pen&paper etc, and I do agree with everything else you've said. Quote: Originally Posted by Heidi Tiger Good post Abigail! I've had it happen to me before and I felt absolutely awful about it, anxious and shaky and sick. It then sets off a lot of paranoia that anything certain people say in a rant thread is directed at you, even when most probably it isn't. Particularly when people say "yeah I can see you reading this thread" or similar, which unfortunately is something I've read far too often on here and just generally makes everyone feel paranoid. If you must rant about certain members doing it on pen and paper then ripping it up once it's out your system is probably kinder for all involved. As is discussing problems you have with a particular member, with discussion and negotiation, you never know you might become friends again, or understand each other that little bit more.
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