I've had quite a few male friends in the past and some at present and mostly things have been nothing other than friendship with them. There was one who asked me out, I turned him down but there was a bit of chemistry between us for a while and then I started to like him more and things but we kept it together just as being friends and that's how it's stayed since and most of the others I've just been friends with and not even thought or wanted to take things further with them because I've just not felt that way about them. But yeh, even the guy that asked me out and there was something obviously there between us, we've never even kissed (a mystery to us all why we never did but there you go!) or anything and though he did talk a lot about wanting to take it further and I've thought in the past of taking it further (though wouldn't now for various reasons), neither of us ever have and it has not pulled us apart or anything.
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