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shadow-light · 13-07-2009, 01:40 PM

I got declared unfit for work a few weeks ago and so am currently in the process of applying for DLA and ESA... I cn relate to the "not feeling bad enough" thing... but I think it's part of the "disorder" that we may never feel bad enough or worthy... but these things are there to help, in a way the fact you are finding it so hard to fill out the forms sort of shows that you are probably "worthy" of them...

I found it helped to get someone to assist in the form filling, esspecially with DLA as often we will play down our own issues but another person may point them out and make sure that they are included, etc.

13-07-2009, 01:40 PM	#2
shadow-light He was no dragon. Fire cannot kill a dragon Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: York I am currently:	I got declared unfit for work a few weeks ago and so am currently in the process of applying for DLA and ESA... I cn relate to the "not feeling bad enough" thing... but I think it's part of the "disorder" that we may never feel bad enough or worthy... but these things are there to help, in a way the fact you are finding it so hard to fill out the forms sort of shows that you are probably "worthy" of them... I found it helped to get someone to assist in the form filling, esspecially with DLA as often we will play down our own issues but another person may point them out and make sure that they are included, etc.