But the reason people stay on RYL is because there mindset isn't always "I need to trigger myself" - it's often "I want to try and stay safe and get support/understanding" - which is why they joined here in the first place.
But if they do want to trigger themselves they will find every way possible to do so - RYL or not.
I've also learnt methods on here and attempted them but i don't necessarily think that's a bad thing because if i hadn't read it i would have found some other - possibly more serious way - of harming myself.
I'm not dissing RYL on the whole per say - just that i feel there's far too many rules, and half the rules are so vague no one particularly knows which way to go so they end up feeling like they're walking on eggshells.
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