Originally Posted by
Pomegranate
My point was simply that you need to find a balance between pleasing other people and giving in to your BPD which would possibly have you remain a victim forever.
This is my big worry. Can I dedicate time to getting myself a little more sorted (if that is actually possible) or is it me just pretending in order to give in and have an excuse. I think it is the former but am scared shitless that it will end up being me giving into the bpd. My capacity to cope with things seems to be going in an ever diminishing circle.
Thanks for helping me think these things through Em.