Don't listen to your friend. It's as simple as that really, you know that you want help and are seeking it and that's all that counts. I had a friend make the same sort of comment to me and it really infuriated me too but on reflection I can see that he said it in the heat of the moment and didn't really know what he was on a bout at all.
Just because you haven't become happy doesn't mean you aren't trying. You're showing alot of strength just by trying. Maybe when you are feeling calm you could talk to your friend and explain how bad their comment made you feel.
You don't have to justify yourself to anyone though, nor do you have to care what they think.
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