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bobbiwibble · 22-05-2009, 03:36 PM

my boyfriend is constantly saying 'don't think about it you're safe now'
it isn't very helpful but then of course he has no idea what to say.. why would he?

i would get further help for this, because it's very different. it might help to talk about it in ED therapy as it may be a contributing factor, but they would most likely then refer you to somebody else and it would just take longer.
If it doesnt go well tonight, if you get really scared or anxious, then to be honest I think you should tell him :) it can't do any harm (it might be painful to tell him but that would be therapeutic anyway) and it might do some good
xxxxbobbi

22-05-2009, 03:36 PM	#4
bobbiwibble Just find the time and reach for the bright side Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Kent, England I am currently:	my boyfriend is constantly saying 'don't think about it you're safe now' it isn't very helpful but then of course he has no idea what to say.. why would he? i would get further help for this, because it's very different. it might help to talk about it in ED therapy as it may be a contributing factor, but they would most likely then refer you to somebody else and it would just take longer. If it doesnt go well tonight, if you get really scared or anxious, then to be honest I think you should tell him :) it can't do any harm (it might be painful to tell him but that would be therapeutic anyway) and it might do some good xxxxbobbi
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