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distant_yellow · 13-05-2009, 08:53 PM

I know.. its hard, but you've gotten over the biggest bump already by making the decision to talk to someone. You obviously have good friends, but i know its hard to follow up on something like that. Could you maybe send your friend an email or pass them a note saying that it is really difficult to talk about these things, and then ask if you two could go somewhere in private to talk about it? Your friend may not know that you want to talk about something so painful until you actually bring it up.

13-05-2009, 08:53 PM	#3
distant_yellow Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: US I am currently:	I know.. its hard, but you've gotten over the biggest bump already by making the decision to talk to someone. You obviously have good friends, but i know its hard to follow up on something like that. Could you maybe send your friend an email or pass them a note saying that it is really difficult to talk about these things, and then ask if you two could go somewhere in private to talk about it? Your friend may not know that you want to talk about something so painful until you actually bring it up.