Sorry your going through that
Its a difficult situation because it can be triggering for you.
They obviously have some issues, if they are SERIOUSLY selfharming or if its just "part of the trend" either way, theres an issue there if there doing it, whatever it is. It may not be the same reason as you, but maybe its because of low self esteem and needing to "fit in" or it could be something no one knows about and this is the way they are dealing with it because its something that they have now become aware of. we cant judge them, if we dont know whats going on, especially if they wont talk about it. that makes it really hard
im sorry about this situation, if i was in it, i would be really frusterated and annoyed. and probably really triggered. especially if they talk about it alot.
i guess the only thing you can do is ask them to get help because you never really know whats going on.
that sucks though
i hope your ok
xo
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