C'mon hunni... you know what he wants you to do is wrong, otherwise you wouldn't be so upset about it and needing help. Think about someone else being in the situation you are in... think about what you would say to them.
YOUR body is yours for a reason. It belongs to you, and you are the only person that can decide what happens to it. If you don't want him to do what he's doing or threatening to do, then you don't have to let him. What you do need to do is talk to someone who can help you break free from him.
We can help you as much as possible, and support you through things, but ultimately, you're the only one that can stop it. Talking to people is a scary thing, but it's necessary to make you safe and happy.
I know this has been going on for a long time, with no signs of improvement... so when he tells you that he loves you, you should know by now that he really doesn't mean it. You deserve someone who will treat you right, and kindly... not this sad excuse of a person.
I'm sorry if you think I've been harsh hunni, but you really need to see that you can change things if you want to. We'll be with you every step of the way with whatever you choose to do... but please consider getting help and stopping him? I'm always only a PM away hunni, and you know I'll do what I can to help.
Take care sweetie
*hugs*
Chrissy
xxx
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