Originally Posted by
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according to my physiology lectures it is when the hymen breaks...
Really? So I've not been a virgin since I was about 7? I dunno, I played rugby, I danced, did the splits and so on, any of that could have gotten rid of it. And so long as I've been fiddling around down there, I don't think I've had a hyman. Defaintely not at all by the time I used tampons, let alone when I first had sex.
So what about gay people who don't consider themselves virgins? I mean, technically they are, but I guess these days, virginity is more of a state of mind than a state of being, unless you're being clinical.