Originally Posted by
sobriquet
Right now, I want someone to say "this isn't normal, you need help". Not that I'd accept the help but . . . just some recognition that I'm struggling. Anyone else get that?
Completely. Right now I actually need someone to say "you aren't in control anymore, let me help"
But the best thing anyone has said to me and that I wish more people would say is that "I don't talk to you because you're X weight, I talk to you because you're amazing; you're intelligent, you're witty, and most of all because I love you"
I wish more people would say that.