lostboys... you have never said anything wrong as far as i'm concerned
i've been in bits recently (like that's a change!!)
folks kicking off inside. someone said to me once "when someone has a go at you, its not about you, its that they're showing their pain". makes sense to me and has been helpful. its enabled me to love those that have been shitty to me (apart from the legion of abusers, who receive my unending, unwavering loathing). when someone show's their pain to me and we know eachother and especially if they're vulnerable, i see that they trust me enough to show their feelings/pain and i value that trust and try to let the shi* bounce off as much as possible or absorb it as best i can
Facet... the way you want to protect lostboys and care so much shows how loving you are. i wish at least as much for you. gentle-natured one
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