Here is the problem:
Read the reply from Blithe Bones of Laden and then read the reply from Crumple...
THAT is the kind of thing we are dealing with. Typsee in particular is getting stones thrown her way from BOTH ENDS of the spectrum. I am not criticizing either of these members but I'm using them as examples regarding the extremely different points of view we get. We get complaints from different people who believe the exact opposite on an issue.
Some members might think we are waaay too lenient, while the others are horrified at how strict we are. For some reason, both ends of the spectrum take it out on typsee, who is an AWESOME mod. It really bothers me when I know a mod is getting argumentative messages from one person telling her that she's a total prude, then gets another argumentative message telling her she's far too lenient on sexual material! What do you expect her to do? And to criticize her for making this thread??? Good grief.
I agree with those who have said it is primarily a problem when ordinary threads get turned into something sexual. I think mildly adult topics are fine as long as they are labeled as such. I can see how the Naturists room could be annoying to some, but it does not break the rules regarding sexually graphic material YET. If it does then alert a mod ASAP, and I'll be happy to deal with it.
If you see something sexually inappropriate PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE alert a moderator. It gets really frustrating to see complaints coming from anyone who NEVER sends alerts.
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