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i still bleed for u
sorry attention seeking!!!! that is totally uncalled for. u should never look at someone as attention seeking how would u feel if someone thought that of u?????
To be honest, if i had taken an OD, and really didnt want any medical help, or to try and be 'saved' the last thing i would do is tell a room for of strangers. I think behaviour like that is for effect, for a person to feel like others care about them.
at the end of the day i understand that mods have lives tooo but when u look at it there is like 4 on at once then none. there should be a scheldual that ensures theres someone here at all times, after all you are trying to run a help website.
thats an impossible thing to ask.. what if a mod cant get online for a few days because their internet is down, what if they went away on holiday, what if they needed a break from RYL too. there are people here 24/7 because of time zones, and i dont think, although i couldnt be wrong, that we have mods here from every time zone.
and my point exactly this site is going down the plug hole at the moment
no its not, i think some members are expecting more than RYL can feasably give.
because of things like that situation, people tip sharing,
post report. The mods can not magically see every single thing that has been written, they need members help.
people telling others to do what they want not even doing what we are all here to do and that is to help one and other
Not everyone is here to help others, some people are here as a distraction, or because their friends are here. and its frustrating if youre giving someone good advice and they refuse to heed it.
i think its time people put there minds in to helping not dissing and also the chat mods should certainly pay more attention to what is going on or other wise everybody from the site will have to live with the fact someone is dead because of poor running
i think that this thread that you have created is one huge 'diss' perhaps you should put your time and effort into helping others instead of publicly critising people that are doing the best they can, for people like you.
How dare you say it will be the mods fault if someone dies? if a person wants to kill themselves, they'll do it, no matter what anyone says.
sorry to say it but this is where its going
i do have a suggestion when people sign up you should ask them for some details eg postal or zip code so at least when someone does try to kill themelves the police and ambulance stand a better chance of finding them
it is no one on this websites job to keep tabs of other people. This is a help website.. its not a doctors surgery, its not the local nhs, its a website. People here cant act as peoples guardians and it cant help people that dont want to be helped.