Originally Posted by
Marky
Everything is a choice. You can take the most heterosexual men, make them grow up in a different envoirment and they'll come out as flamboyantly gay as ever.
So many things influence how we make decisions, it's not just "Oh, I'll be gay now". It's our enviorment, it's the people around us... most of our decisions are made in our subconcious, to a level we can't recognise... and instead people say it's a genetic predisposition to be gay.
It's like owning up to fate, believing we're something from the moment we're born. We're a blank slate.
The only reason people believe it isn't a choice is because we don't entirely make the decision, so many things around us do. But not to the extent that we could ever be born with it... or change it.