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blondiebear · 25-02-2009, 07:44 PM

Instead of saying stop whining, I try to ask "what are you willing to do to solve this problem"

We're all sensitive here. We're all here because we need help. I try to not report things unless it directly disregards ryl rules or otherwise threatens their emotional and physical safety.

25-02-2009, 07:44 PM	#44
blondiebear Bringing back the lost art of Sewing Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: California Confusion I am currently:	Instead of saying stop whining, I try to ask "what are you willing to do to solve this problem" We're all sensitive here. We're all here because we need help. I try to not report things unless it directly disregards ryl rules or otherwise threatens their emotional and physical safety.
	My husband is my best friend. In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.